''She wants to dump me for not taking her virginity''

Do you think some guys are really scared to dis-virgin girls?

I would like to remain anonymous. I've been dating a girl I met in secondary school for about 5 years and she's a virgin and I made a promise not to hurt her by respecting her. Recently, she's been disturbing me that she wants me to dis-virgin her. Please, don't get me wrong, I'm not afraid to do it but I also love her madly and I'm not ready to do that just because she asked. Unfortunately, she wants to break up with me because of that. Please what should i do?

Dear fan,

The question is, are you ready to let her go? If your answer is no then I suggest it's better for you to do it than her leaving you after five years and getting some random boy to. I understander your concerns but If you really love her and want to marry her, its better you do it. However, if fornication isn't your thing, then get ready to lose the woman you love in order to obey God's command.

Please, I just want to ask that what causes stomach pain in a woman after having sex? Victoria.

Dear Vicky,

I have answered this question before but I will again for your sake. First of all, there is nothing medically wrong. What I think is that your man's gotta big or longer dick which, when inserted into you, it hits the depth of your vagina, uterus and causes pain for some cases, bleeding. I suggest during sex, you should be in control so you can watch how much of his penis gets into you. So hope you can ride.

Hi Joan, I saw some of your articles on pulse.ng and decided to ask for an advice...I'm 20-yrs-old and whenever my girlfriend and me cuddle, fondle and romance each other, my penis will just shrink in the middle of it. Each time this happens, I look for an excuse to give her. Please, what is happening? Is it a medical or psychological problem or is it lack of confidence?

Dear Dare,

You penis shrinks and you can't go straight to a medical doctor for questions immediately? Dude, ain't you playing with your manhood? Ok, kidding but seriously you have got to concentrate on that sex than thinking about other things while at it. Sex is of the mind so if you allow it to be crowed with excitement, money matters, work issues etc, that lil man will also go to sleep. Try to be it to win it. But try go see a Doc!